Until recently, the debate about the existence of the G-spot did not stop until one of the American scientists put an end to various speculations by examining the corpse of an elderly woman. He found that the desired erogenous zone is located on the upper wall of the vagina and feels like a walnut to the touch. When this point is stimulated, the woman reaches orgasm in a short time, with proper and prolonged stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (in rare cases).
Unfortunately, the G-spot has not been fully explored. Some questions remain unanswered: Does every woman have it, and if so, can everyone orgasm from its stimulation?
How to start looking for the G-spot
Your partner can look for the G-spot or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina, having previously applied a special lubricant to them. After inserting your fingers into the vagina, you should bend them up to touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G-spot
Insert lubricated fingers into the vagina, with the other hand gently press the pubis, the fingers inserted into the vagina should move up and down until you can pay attention to the clitoris, for sharpness. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the point yourself using a vibrator.
If your partner's penis is naturally curved slightly upwards, then you will have more positions that encourage stimulation, even the classic missionary is included in the bill. Another simple and effective pose is for the woman on top and the partners to be face to face.
What is a reactive orgasm?
When the G-spot is stimulated, the girl can also experience a jet orgasm. During such an orgasm, a specific liquid is released from the girl's vagina. To get exactly such an orgasm, the partner should insert lubricated fingers and move them up and down the walls of the vagina, and this should be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, your partner should help you relax with a massage oil massage. The girl should lie on her back, bending her knees.
During a jet orgasm, there is a desire to urinate, but this sensation quickly passes and the desired pleasure comes. However, it is advisable for your self-esteem to go to the toilet before the procedure.
If the first time you did not manage to experience any kind of orgasm, do not be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls achieve results after only 2 weeks of training. You just have to learn to relax and trust your partner completely.
Where is the G-spot in women and how to find it? These intriguing questions concern almost all modern people. Women want to experience the indelible and incomparable sensations that the stimulation of this area causes. Men want to please their partners and at the same time increase their self-esteem as a talented and experienced lover. In this article, we tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic point.
The female G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, at a distance of about 3-5 cm from the entrance. However, the range of the location of the point is 1-10 cm. In addition, it is far from always located in the center of the wall. Often the point is located on the right or left side.
Finding the G-spot is not so easy, but the result will pay off all your efforts. Most importantly, do not forget that in a calm state the mysterious point is barely noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. In a state of excitement, it swells, doubles in size and becomes well palpable. The point, or rather the area, has a slightly rough surface and is somewhat reminiscent of gooseberry or walnut bark, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the vagina.
So let's start looking for the magic point:
- First of all, make every effort to arouse strong arousal in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. At the moment before the start or immediately after it, the point is best explored.
- The most convenient position for searching is the position in which the partner lies on her back with her legs wide apart. Carefully insert two fingers into the vagina, feel the area that is located under the pubic bone itself. At the same time, remember that the numerical statistics for the location of the G-spot are not an axiom, and for different women the valuable zone may not be exactly in the same place.
- In almost all fair sexes, this part of the vagina is characterized by reduced sensitivity. Therefore, in order to detect it, it is often necessary to press quite hard and actively on the examined area. Ask the woman to suggest which direction to move.
- If during the search for a partner you feel the urge to urinate, you are most likely on the right track. When pressing on the G-spot, this reaction, along with a feeling of discomfort, occurs in many women. Don't worry, these types of sensations go away pretty quickly and are replaced by a sense of increasing arousal.
- The G-spot looks like a small hard lump no bigger than a pea. Try to grab it with two fingers. Then start rhythmically squeezing and releasing the lump, pressing and releasing it, trying to be powerful and gentle at the same time to avoid injury to the sensitive vaginal mucosa.
Everyone talks about the G-spot, but few people talk about other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to awaken these points, orgasm will no longer escape from under your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have heard more than once about the miraculous properties of a special point G on the female body, but few people understand what is hidden behind this name, and very few people know about the existence of at least 3 more special points, the stimulation of which will give a woman a specialpleasant sensations. These same erogenous zones in women are called points A, K, U, that is, the entire "female alphabet" consists of the acronym G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at what these erogenous zones of the female body are, where they are located, how to stimulate them and what effect the woman will get from the stimulation.
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina at a depth of 4-5 centimeters from the entrance to the vagina. It is a hypersensitive area of the vagina, measuring 1. 5 to 2 cm, containing 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, in contrast to other areas containing no more than 30 nerve endings. That is, stimulating this area will bring 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be easily stimulated with a finger or a small vibrator that has an appropriate purpose and shape.
What are the most erogenous zones in women?
Point A
Where is a woman's erogenous zone, called point A? You can find this intimate point in the front of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, it is, like G, a hypersensitive area measuring 2 to 4 cm. With strong arousal, the tissues around the uterus begin to contract strongly, anda man's penis can penetrate her neck almost 3 centimeters. In addition, this area does not become hypersensitive after orgasm, which makes it possible to prolong the pleasure.
K-point
The K-point is located on the back wall of the vagina and stimulation of this point is done during anal sex, but provided that the wall between the rectum and the vagina is not too thickened. Stimulation of this zone, unlike the previous two zones, does not give emotionally colored experiences, love and affection for the partner, but delivers a particularly sharp and bright orgasm.
U point
What other erogenous zones do women have? The U point is soft erectile tissue, also imbued with nerve endings to a greater extent than the surrounding tissue. It can be found in the vestibule of the urethra. During the stimulation of the U-spot, there is a strong sexual desire and the desire to urinate at the same time. In this case, the impact is not only on the U point, but also on Skene's glands, the so-called "prostate gland" of a woman, located throughout the spongy body of the urethra. These areas are individual for each woman and can be located onthe exit of the urethra, in the middle of the canal or on the cervix itself. Their location is an important factor in the sensitivity of the U-point. During normal sex, the U-point is not affected, so it must be stimulated separately, with circular movements of the finger. The simultaneous stimulation ofthe G and U spots in women sometimes leads to the so-called "squirt" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All erogenous zones are concentrated on it. In fact, in every man's body there is another powerful sexual tool that actively participates in every sexual act. It refers to the prostate gland or in other words the prostate.
In a fit of passion, few people remember the presence of the prostate. And completely in vain. It, like the main male genital organ, is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists put it on a par with the female G-spot, because the competent impact on the prostate is accompanied by unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious area in a man's body? >
- Before you start looking for the cherished spot on your partner's body, ask him to go through a little preparation. Ideally, the man should clean the intestines and empty the rectum with an enema, which will make the massage in such an intimate place more aesthetic.
- Do everything you can to get your partner to relax and trust you completely. His inner insecurity will lead to contraction of the sphincter and complete failure of your sexual experiment. Find out from the man if he really wants to be involved. Otherwise, instead of bright pleasure, he will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Trim your nails effortlessly. If you have long nails, do not even try to start looking for the G-spot, as this is fraught with the appearance of microtraumas in the rectum of your loved one.
- Wash your hands well not only before, but also after searching and finding the cherished point. Do not touch the hand you used for the search to the male genital organ or your genitals, and even better, use disposable gloves. In this way, you will protect yourself from various microorganisms from your partner's colon, which can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Do not start looking for the prostate at the beginning of intercourse. It is better to move it the moment you feel the impending onset of climax. Otherwise, you can simply spoil the sexual mood of your partner and even make him feel uncomfortable.
- Give your man an erotic massage, starting from the head and smoothly moving to the stomach and back. Pay special attention to the rear. Massage your partner with gentle and gentle movements.
- Let your man lie on his back. At this time, you will place yourself between his legs and very delicately and carefully insert your finger into his anus, remembering to use petroleum jelly or a special lubricant. Move forward about 4-5 cm and try to feel on the front wall of the intestine on the side of the abdomen a bulge about the size of a chestnut.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-elbow position or lie on your side, preferably the right side, and press your knees tightly to your stomach. This position will not only make it easier for you, but also allow the man to experience multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles are maximally relaxed.
A full-fledged sex life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. In order for both partners to get absolute pleasure from intimacy, you need to know how to find the g-point.
Stimulation of the erogenous zones allows the man and his partner to reach orgasm.
The fact that there is a special place - the ji point, they began to talk about already in the middle of the last century. There is still no consensus on where the G-spot is. Women usually have no problems determining its coordinates.
This place is located on the front wall of the vagina - from 3 to 5 cm from the entrance. You can see what the erogenous epicenter itself looks like in a special video. There are also photos in which a special place looks like a small-sized bean.
You don't need to study the video to recognize the ji point. This place is quite tangible with tactile inspection. If this area is stimulated, then there is a significant increase in size (in some women several times).
Finding an erogenous point is not difficult at all, for this you need to feel the front wall of the vagina. This area will be rougher and rougher, which is not typical of the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the G-spot is when a woman is in a state of sexual arousal. This area is less sensitive for every girl, so it should be additionally and actively stimulated. To master the practical techniques of such stimulation, you can watch the video.
During sexual intercourse, there is no stimulation of the g pole, so some women have doubts about the presence of such a place. Each of the girls has it individually. Therefore, to establish the presence of the microzone ji, one of the optimal poses must be chosen.
These include the following provisions:
- the partner is behind;
- the girl assumes the posture of a rider and leans back heavily.
Even a careful study of a video or photo is not always helpful to find the answer, how to find the ji point? That doesn't mean your sex life will be any less impressive.
Point ji is a truly unique place. For most women, however, the emotional rather than the physiological sensations of sex predominate. Some girls note that they do not enjoy the stimulation of the erogenous g chakra at all.
The older women are, the less significant is the use of the g-factor to achieve orgasm. It should also be borne in mind that, according to sexologists, the task of finding a supererogenous point is relevant only for those women who cannot experience orgasm at all.
How to determine the coordinates of the ji point of a partner?
If the problem of the location of the ji zone in women can be solved using a tactile method, then the question of how to find the partner's g point is not difficult at all.
Finding such a place in the male half is even easier, you don't even need an instructional video. An analogue of the ji point is the prostate gland.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (this can be seen in the video). To get to a man's g-spot, you have to use the anus. In practice, it looks like this: a finger is carefully inserted into the anus and a slight bulge is found on the side of the abdomen. This will be zone g. It is located somewhere four to five centimeters from the entrance to the anus.
Not all men will like such unusual sexual activity of women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively evaluate such attempts by women to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long, sharp nails. If she managed to find the location of the g-zone, then it is better to use a special lubricant for caressing. All these actions must be done very delicately.
If partners decide to find a unique g zone, then it is advisable to use different methods. You can watch the special video above.
By mutual agreement, try to find the precious object called the "g-spot" by tactile exploration. For some couples, the magical g transforms intimate life, making it even richer and more vibrant.
By exploring each other's bodies, lovers can achieve real pleasure!